Are you sure you're actually avoidant?

There was a time when I thought I was avoidant, or at least, that’s what I was told. That I pulled away too quickly. That I didn’t open up enough. That I left before things could deepen. That I was hard to reach, hard to read, hard to keep.

When you’re told you’re doing something wrong enough times, it begins to sound convincing.

When you’re feeling misu…